Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Beauty is Brains, Sexy is Personality, and Gorgeous is Confidence. Life is about being more than just another pretty face.

"Confidence is what makes a girl sexy."
Is this true? Are we truly sexy and beautiful when we are more confident? Psychologically, yes. If you feel confident, then you act confident, which in turn means that you feel better about yourself, which comes off as beauty and sexiness to others. Even if your just in sweats and your hair in a ponytail, the guy at the coffee shop will still flirt with you cause you put off a good vibe.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
Don't think someone is blind if they tell you that you look beautiful, even when you look your worst. While one person may find something ugly, another can find it the most breathtaking thing in the world. It's like how one mans trash is anothers treasure. Beauty depends on the person, that's why people are different and like different things, so of course beauty cannot be defined by one person's standards.

"Beauty only gets attention, personality captures the heart."
Many guys say they notice a girl because she is pretty or something about her looks stands out. But just as often they say that a pretty girl isn't worth it if she's as dull as a brick. The girls who perfect hair, teeth and nails and gorgeous clothes and figures may be the ones who make their jaws drop, but if she has nothing else to offer but looks, then will it truly last? More than likely, no. There has to be a person behind those looks, a person with thoughts, ideals and beliefs. Are you really a person if you seem to have no mind or thoughts?

"The average girl would rather have beauty than brains because she knows the average man can see much better than he can think."
This is the one reason so many girls go to so much trouble worrying about their hair, nails, clothes, makeup and etc. Guys only see their outside appearances, and they have to draw them in to see their brains and personality. If they don't look their best then no one will ever truly see them or want to see them. Sadly, most of the time this is true. People and society have made it so appearance tends to be everything. Looking good is one thing, but when you do it for everyone else and not yourself, you lose the joy from looking and feeling good.

"Beauty is Brains, Sexy is Personality, and Gorgeous is Confidence. Life is about being more than just another pretty face."
I struggle everyday to feel good about my appearance. All of us do at some point. But it always helps to have people who remind you are beautiful for who you are. It doesn't matter if your hair is a little frizzy, your teeth not so straight, your nose too big or anything else. Just knowing that to a couple people you are beautiful is nice.

But what's really nice is when one morning you just wake up...and you feel beautiful. You put on a pair of jeans that you never where because they are a bit tight and you worry they look bad, when they actually look pretty good, and pick out a t-shirt and don't think twice about it. You do your makeup and try something out you usually wouldn't. You do your hair a little different and find you like it.
That is when you are truly beautiful. It's not what you where, or how you look. It's how you act. People may think you are beautiful, but it won't mean anything until you realize it yourself.  Remember being and looking different is what makes you into you. No one will ever look or act you, so don't try to look like someone else, because that is denying the world the wonderful person you have within.

So be beautiful because that is something we all have to offer ♥